One day I'll find you

There are many people in this world; close to seven billion according to Wikipedia.

But how many of them really matter to you?

Most people can only have 2 or 3 really close friends - best friends if you will. But how many of us actually find those people and keep them for years? I'm not sure.

There are some things that are important to being a really good friend or lover. This is a list of characteristic qualities I've been working on for quite some time now.

• Kind and compassionate
• Honest
• Truthful
• Hard-working
• Exercises self-control
• Gentle tongue (speaks kindly)
• Generous
• Forgiving
• Willing to be correct and listen to counsel
• Wise
• Integrity
• Faithful and reliable
• Humble
• Willing to admit when wrong
• Avoids excesses
• Has control of their temper
• Can keep confidence
• Not contentious but a peacemaker
• Has concern for others especially poor and oppressed
• Not jealous of others
• Has a positive outlook on life

Anything I've missed?

Thinking it is one thing but then saying...

"some times I just want to... punch him in the head!" turns out to be a good thing to say.

Future watches are almost here

Mutewatch is a silent alarm in the shape of a vibrating wristband. This discreet device with its hidden touch screen brings structure and time back to its user. It serves as a quiet reminder that helps you follow your own agenda without disturbing people in your surroundings.

You may have seen my post last year about future watches and now it seems we are inches ever so slightly closer.

The most exciting thing about the Mutewatch is the prospect that it doesn't look like a watch. That is isn't loud.

At my work there is one particular man with a loud watch. So far, in the middle of important conversations I've had to stop and say "your watch is very loud. why is it so loud?" three times. He doesn't know why its loud, in fact he can hardly hear it. And to be quite frank from all the gigs I'v been to I probably should be able to hear it either. But I can and I don't like it.

But that is neither here nor there.

The secret is...

Not to compromise.